In the course of making our children ‘super children’, have we forgotten to give them their Side time or we are simply running in the race of ‘Focus on your career’ marathon???
You know there are series of tasks a child will do but only when he is capable to, and not when we want them to do. Or maybe sometimes they might do the task when we consistently force them to do but not with that happiness or zeal with which they’ll do the stuff they really love to do. At early stage children are needed to be loved and embraced and not mended. Beginners need more of side time- playful times, leisure times, feeling of love, trust and care. This is the right time to create a feeling of trust in the relationship and not pressuring them for the ‘so called career’ which will thereafter create a distant gap in your relation. And once this gap is amidst you and your child it will become very difficult to bridge the gap. So begin with the playfulness; the actual meaning of childhood and not the pressure of future.
Let’s not spoil the present of our children, let’s not over burden them with the extra weights of OUR dreams that we have seen for them and instead let them dream themselves and built a beautiful future. 😊
When two people’s finger prints never matches, eye cornea never matches then how can we compare two completely different individuals? Every human is a unique creation of god and every unique individual is blessed with different qualities and skills.
In the blossoming age of children, as parents it’s our responsibility to make them explore themselves and figure out with what skills they are gifted with. Rather than just running in a race of making our children ‘Super Children’ and imposing on them your aspirations and your desires.
It is natural that parents want a secure future for their children but not on the cost of their mental health. Let the child not carry the load of your wishes, instead make him light by helping him realise his dreams.
Very often people wonder why do we have children? Is it to carry on the family’s name or to raise children to take care of us in old age?
The reason for having children is both to give and to appreciate.
We should not ask for perfection in our children, neither should we expect them to win credits to honour the family nor should we want them as an insurance for old age.
We should only ask for them to be healthy and to let us have the chance to walk with them through this journey of life in this beautiful world.
A step towards better parenting. Give your kid a full fledged childhood. We help you serve your child better😊